I’m separated with three children and for the last year I have been dating a good-looking older man who has never been married. I like him very much but don’t love him. He has taken me on some wonderful holidays, out to dinner etc. and we do enjoy each other’s company very much but I haven’t introduced him to any of my family or friends. There’s just something stopping me but I don’t know what. I wonder should I give him up?
Why? This seems a very odd decision to make since you say you enjoy each other’s company so much and from your letter – separated with three children – you are probably not in the first flush of youth yourself! This man sounds like he knows how to have a good time and instead of thinking about yourself, how about thinking about him for a change. You come with baggage, three children and an ex husband and yet he likes you enough to stick around. I see from your address you live in Wicklow – what I and our readers would like to know is where you socialise which enables you to feel that you are going to replace this generous man so easily! Believe me, you drop him and he won’t be available for long and you will be left wondering why you didn’t hold on to this treasure who took you on holidays and showed you a good time. Remember the old saying ‘ Better an old man’s darling than a young man’s slave’! The not telling your family and friends about him makes me wonder what is REALLY going on?
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