My husband has just admitted he has cheated on me for the second time and although the affair had lasted for some time he has now finished it and he is sorry, it was a mistake and he won’t do it again. The thing is, these are all the excuses he gave me the last time this happened and I believed him. Would I be mad to forgive him again or should I finish for good, I really don’t know what to do.
It really depends on how much you love him, your quality of life and how much you are willing to put up with. In my eyes, forgiving him the first time shows a lot of love and understanding. Forgiving him a second time is merely rewarding bad behaviour, the first time he cheated was the difficult one for him, taking the risk – after that it’s easy, especially when you have been forgiven once already. Don’t forget, a sad and depressed wife is just no match for a jolly, flirtatious mistress who stares lovingly into his eyes over dinner – that’s your housekeeping she’s eating! A man who has cheated once and has been forgiven is far more lightly to stray again. A man who has been forgiven twice …… how about we try a little self-respect? Sometimes a good settlement is better then a bad marriage!
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